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There is a misguided thought that being busy
is the same as making progress. With shorter deadlines, competing
priorities, interruptions and even higher quality expectations, it brings
today's time challenges to another level. Yet the number of hours in the day
has not changed.
If you feel the pressure of time poverty, read on.
A common mistake that most people make is not
allowing for a balanced life-style. Remember, one's overall health and well
being require attention to these six important life areas:
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Physical (exercise, nutrition, sleep)
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Intellectual (cultural, aesthetic)
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Social ( intimate and social
relationships)
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Emotional (expression of feelings,
desires)
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Spiritual (quest for meaning)
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Career (career goal directed work)
Naturally you don't need a required amount of
activities in each of these areas, but if you neglect one entirely, you may
be ignoring an important part of yourself. For example, if you set aside
time for exercise you will improve your overall functioning and better
manage your stress. If you take time for your intellectual growth, you will
gain new perspectives on life, experience different pleasures, and be better
able to focus on your goals.
Consider your biological prime time - the
time of day when you are at your best. Are you a morning person, a night
owl, or a late afternoon whiz? Knowing when your best time is and planning
to use that portion of the day for your priorities is effective time
management.
You can conquer procrastination using Alan
Lakein's method of "Swiss Cheese". When avoiding something because you dread
the task, break it into smaller bits and do just one of the smaller tasks.
If this is not possible, set a timer and work on that biggie for just 15
minutes. By doing a little at a time (I hate filing), eventually you will
reach a point where you'll want to finish it once and for all.
For me, learning to say "no" was next to
impossible. Such a small word, but I wanted to please no matter the cost to
me. But focusing on your goals may help. You must be convinced that you and
your priorities are more important -- that seems to be the hardest part in
learning to say "no". But it does get easier when you simply can't find the
time and refuse to be derailed for that hour or that day.
In the Malaysian culture, only the gods are
considered capable of producing anything perfect. Whenever something is
finished, a flaw is left on purpose so the gods will not be offended. Of
course some things need to be closer to perfect than others but
perfectionism can be a form of procrastination. Shed the stress of always
being perfect. Eliminate altogether the trivial tasks or those tasks which
do not lead to your long-term goals.
© 2004 Esther Smith
About
the Author: Smith has published numerous articles and writes a blog for
all artists:
http://the-self-taught-artist.com/blog.html
She also coaches new students on how to leave the time-for-money trap and set up
Leveraged Income for life.
http://thepermanentventure.com/dcc.htm If you can’t sing or ride a
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